I cannot fully understand why most of the people choose to stay away from fear, from pain and failure, therefore from sadness .They are likewise some fools, avoiding themselves for the dummy misconception that it may be unplesant. Rejecting such a noble feeling it comes with its costs: fickleness, tension, often abeyance/idleness. You must be true to yourself and experience both sides of the coin in the light of the fact that this approach will get you in touch with your other self, that you ran away from, and eventally enable you a state of eudaimonia. Stamina, understanding, serenity and kindness arise of gloominess, its obsurity is the most propitious factor for this values to thrive. Ultimately it is to be remembered that the light was not born within itself but within the darkness.